Thursday, November 8, 2012

HOW TO LEAVE THE STAGE


It is easy to get carried away especially when there is applause; easy to get comfortable and never want to leave. In fact the echoes of applause that have since stopped can continue in one’s head so that you are not able to tell whether people love or are just tolerating you. Mugabe would advise otherwise, but I seek the face of Mandela in this matter.

I have offended a few people while writing the “How To” series. Yesterday, a pretty rosy-cheeked French expatriate struggled to tell me in imperfect but sweet English how one of the articles, “How to be an expatriate” ‘hurt’ her. And I, with carefully enunciated words, explained that this was only satire and that although it left a bitter taste on her pink lips, I meant to describe only a certain type of expatriate.

For all my friends foreign and local who have felt offended by this series, I beg that they should not allow common articles interfere with our glorious hustle. I am young. And many times foolish. Forgive me.

Some of the articles have resonated with a lot of people, like “How to worship the Nigerian god”. Thousands of people read and shared that article and I received many lovely messages of appreciation (and a few condemning me to the hottest parts of hell). I will say that it was this article that God used to bless the hustle of the series, drawing readers from around the world, spreading this gospel from Austria to South Africa.

At some points, some people tried to truncate my hustle. When I wrote “How to be angry”, I got a curious passive-aggressive call at night from someone who claimed to be calling from the Government House of Kaduna State. The fellow called to “set the record straight”. That same week a writer had been kidnapped in Abuja. Understandably, I panicked and alerted a lot of my journalist friends. I didn’t sleep at home that night. God will judge that man appropriately.

I thank all those who syndicated the series or even just put it up on blogs (and acknowledged the source). I thank especially Daily Times Nigeria and Cheta Nwanze with whom this hustle started. I thank Y!Naija and Chude Jideonwo who always said yes to me when I needed a favor. I thank my dear friend Carmen McCain who saved my readers from embarrassing mistakes, for always being there when I needed a second eye; for always being there. Many thanks to Mirella Mahlstein Ajibade, for giving me some of the great ideas that produced some of the most popular articles; for being my bouncing board (and sometimes lab rat). Malinda Seneviratne, the kind Sri Lankan editor of The Nation who took an interest in my work and showed my articles to Sri Lanka: God bless your Sri Lankan hustle.

A few people have flattered me by acknowledging me in their own original “How to” articles. Joke Ajibola even mentioned my name in the title of her brilliant “How to be a witness to injustice”. She didn’t have to, but it was nice. God will bless her hustle.

I hope that many more people will write satire whether following the “How to” style or otherwise. The stage is big enough for everyone.

After over 40 “How to” articles and so much love, I must leave. The evil spirit of Mugabe at this time reminds me of the many I have not done, “How to be a police officer”, “How to be a doctor”, “How to be a mother-in-law”… it beckons me to stay and keep at it. I say, “Get behind me Mugabe!”

Hopefully, the entire series will be made into a little book and you can all go buy it and further bless my hustle.

This is how to leave the stage. When you are still loved, sometime before you are chased off with boos and bags of pure water. To the thousands of people who have made this possible: may God meet you at the point of your needs and immensely bless your hustle!

 

 

22 comments:

  1. Elnathan has left the building...Clap,clap,clap!!!

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  2. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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  3. If not that some brainless guy will run with it, I would say Elnathan for President but I trust even he knows my hopes & dreams for this nation transcend writing 40+ beautiful,insightful & highly entertaining articles even though our present crop of rulers/rapists think otherwise. They should come sit at your feet to learn how to be human......kudos,bro!

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  4. If not that some brainless guy will run with it, I would say Elnathan for President but I trust even he knows my hopes & dreams for this nation transcend writing 40+ beautiful,insightful & highly entertaining articles even though our present crop of rulers/rapists think otherwise. They should come sit at your feet to learn how to be human......kudos,bro!

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  5. Thank you. And may God continue to bless your hustle.

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  6. Hmmmm... I'm all tears, but it's wise to leave now.

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  7. Applause............. Shame on Mugabe, and Biya, and all African despots. Thumbs up to Elnathan and the voice of reason and wisdom. We eagerly await the book. God bless.

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  8. ella ....looool

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  9. Please don't turn off the series!!! Please don't!! It's not yet time to leave the stage... Seriously it's not. So what you stepped on few toes, it's normal...you would always step on toes even if you are not stepping at all

    Please don't go now... You leave the stage only when the applause is loudest...the applause isn't there yet. It's still average

    Change your mind please. I love your 'how to' series.

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  10. May the true God (bigger than the Nigerian god) not truncate your hustle

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  11. This is "How To...." further your hustle. Good thing, good time.

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  12. Aww .... No! I want to read 'How to be a Mother in Law....:(

    May God continue to bless your hustle Elnathan.... And I will surely buy a copy of that book.

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  13. Eeyah, faresafe to my beloved how to series, Eljo, this is just the beginning keep the how to series alive in our minds. Just few suggestions, in the collection of the how tos, try and smuggled in few how tos eg: Somi's desired "How to be a mother in law" your confessional lapse "How to be a Police Officer (especially in Nigeria) and my would most preferred: "How to be Bald in your Twenties".
    Bros my the God of How to, grease your effort with more disciples, your detractors are entitle to their fury but can never truncate your husle.

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  14. Awwwwww..........will miss you
    God bless you

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  15. tejumola(supaflygirl)Friday, November 09, 2012

    Sob! Sob!! Sooooob!!! Don't go! Don't stop. Awwwwww *sob* *sniff* come back pls...*wipes hot tears* *on knees*

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  16. http://sataire.wordpress.com this is a nice elnathan inspired blog that also has really entertaining "How to"'s. I personally think El nathan shouldn't quit yet. But I'm not paying him to do this, so I can't dictate. My two cents; THE OVATION HASN'T STARTED YET. I also don't REALLY believe that he would be so easily frightened off by a couple of illiterates. I think he might just be worried about creative burn out. A Hiatus would be better, as opposed to a formal termination (which definitely is premature). I am sad, and empty sha. One of my favourite internet haunts has just died. I just hope whatever elnathan does next turns out to be half as good. I will be hoping, and waiting eagerly for it. Thanks For the Memories sha.

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  17. Hope the series becomes a book... Job well done :-)

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  18. I agree that the applause hasn't even begun yet. There is still such a peak looming before the descent begins. No,the ovation wasn't/isn't in your head. How can you do this?

    You forgot "How to be a Nigerian husband/wife,How to have Nigerian sex! Hey! Come back here!

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  19. Yay! I finally found Elnathan John's blog. I don dey read about him for plenty blogs o, yet I no fit see the Elnathan John. Sharp sharp, I am going to follow o. Nice blog!

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  20. So this is how the Master leaves the stage...with a big bang. U baam.

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  21. So this is how the Master leaves the stage...with a big bang. U baam.

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  22. Can't wait to buy a "how-to" compilation by you!

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