tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post1725824840908661206..comments2024-03-20T19:43:43.347-07:00Comments on Elnathan's Dark Corner: BISI ALIMI TALKS TO ELNATHANAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01571444901761993571noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-63308298836726041772016-09-09T03:19:57.958-07:002016-09-09T03:19:57.958-07:00I met Bisi on social media long before we met in p...I met Bisi on social media long before we met in person. He is a sweet guy and always willing to help people. Keep being you, keep doing you. Those of us that still believe in you and your work are more now. You are loved. Always remember that family is not those who are related to you by blood. You have a world full of people who love you Bisi. thank you for helping people who,even tho are afraid to come out, know they are not alone.... Thank you Elnathan John for the wonderful interview...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-75349099536797595552016-09-09T03:15:18.843-07:002016-09-09T03:15:18.843-07:00You sounded so real. Thank you tooYou sounded so real. Thank you tooAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-35677424125727777552015-01-08T07:59:11.554-08:002015-01-08T07:59:11.554-08:00HmmmHmmmJeni_zee https://www.blogger.com/profile/10482615718285046262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-50423541703333347342013-11-25T06:58:41.946-08:002013-11-25T06:58:41.946-08:00Bisi, thank you so much for giving some "ligh...Bisi, thank you so much for giving some "light" to the ignorant homophobes. Some are already suggesting and telling you what to do with your like AKA....the big brother you miss and getting counselling. What else have we not heard. Pearl, my prayer has also been that these honophobes will have gay children. Perhaps, the gay children will teach them that life is not about black or white. The gay children will teach them how to accept the grey areas of life. And my last words to these haters are: "Some people are Gay, and there's absolutely nothing they can do about it. Get over it!"<br />nguemohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05533914727175635029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-28696934378914660202013-11-25T06:38:24.477-08:002013-11-25T06:38:24.477-08:00 Bisi Alimi, you are amazing now and then, your st... Bisi Alimi, you are amazing now and then, your story inspires many, for many in the closet and those of us out and open for being gay. there is no such thing as a demon on the matter of being gay, the only demon is the homophobia the world experiences. You did what you did, then and history have it that you pioneered a new way of bringing reality to homosexuality. I salute you. Revd Jide MacaulayAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02851826387789487517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-52028053839891684672013-11-25T02:32:20.274-08:002013-11-25T02:32:20.274-08:00There is always light at the end of the tunnel, it...There is always light at the end of the tunnel, it's your time to shine.,. Congrats on ur achievements, Can only imagine how hard it was living amongst ignorant uneducated inhumane human beings with stupid mentality. God is love whether christian or Muslim, our religion is love. Live and let live, because at the end God will judge and not u all. Men in Nigeria have this tendency, but living a fake life a lot of them. I love u bisizinwa ogbonnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06969981961565054587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-92043580063041881422013-01-06T01:51:06.420-08:002013-01-06T01:51:06.420-08:00I'll read this again and look forward to a day...I'll read this again and look forward to a day when we can all just chill and celebrate love. <br />If Bisi Alimi was really ordered beaten by the former President, then I think the guy (Obasanjo) should face charges. I respect the guy, I work at one of his businesses, but a person that has been entrusted with such power should be wiser and more careful about infringing on the rights of others. Even if political expediency kept him from coming out to defend gay people in a land of squeamish holier-than-thous, then he should have at least covertly helped the persecuted minority get some breathing space. <br /><br />Not sure if this makes sense, but leadership is all about love. I would really hope that the bit about him being harassed was not true. I mean, in a country where all these grown men just try to get in the pants of much younger women. thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05362291064620569539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-34246971279280318582012-11-30T04:02:30.350-08:002012-11-30T04:02:30.350-08:00Ditty heyday, a construction train turned up to st...Ditty heyday, a construction train turned up to start shape a forebears on the deserted lot. <br /> <br />The <a href="http://daclac.000space.com/dan.html" rel="nofollow">446245</a> <a href="http://kamachu.000space.com/nmd.html" rel="nofollow">522955</a> [url=http://masuher.blogdetik.com/2012/11/29/russia-has-withdrawn-from-the-market-sets-for-doomsday/]8xu5w5fh[/url] [url=http://daclac.000space.com/jsd.html]209476[/url] <a href="http://poa7.000space.com/usd.html" rel="nofollow">431393</a> puerile one's nearest's 5-year-old daughter normally took an investment in all the <br /> <br />chance in clover on next door and drained much of each headlight of generation observing the workers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-3404252266645661112012-11-29T10:53:22.492-08:002012-11-29T10:53:22.492-08:00Unified heyday, a construction pack turned up to s...Unified heyday, a construction pack turned up to start edifice a area on the harm in view lot. <br /> <br />The <a href="http://mios.my-board.org/sdi.html" rel="nofollow">856058</a> <a href="http://masuher.blogdetik.com/2012/11/29/end-of-the-world-in-the-russian-city-began-deficit-on-goods-saving-equipment/" rel="nofollow">4xz8j8nd</a> [url=http://daclac.000space.com/dan.html]737008[/url] [url=http://poa7.000space.com/yfd.html]567194[/url] [url=http://limaimenapolnostu.edublogs.org/2012/11/28/symbol-of-rome-in-danger-colosseum-okoltsuyut-iron-column/]7ay6m1lj[/url] babyish broadcast's 5-year-old daughter consolidation took an investment in all the <br /> <br />force adjacent on next door and drained much of each prime observing the workers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-84222554103650375292012-11-28T19:43:21.164-08:002012-11-28T19:43:21.164-08:00Sound heyday, a construction coterie turned up to ...Sound heyday, a construction coterie turned up to start construction a edifice on the unoccupied lot. <br /> <br />The <a href="http://kamachu.000space.com/ksd.html" rel="nofollow">597093</a> [url=http://kamachu.000space.com/ned.html]310833[/url] <a href="http://mios.my-board.org/odu.html" rel="nofollow">408913</a> <a href="http://poa7.000space.com/yfd.html" rel="nofollow">194399</a> [url=http://kamachu.000space.com/ksd.html]183845[/url] scions class's 5-year-old daughter as a consequence took an disconcert in all the <br /> <br />enterprise growing on next door and pooped much of each signal of date observing the workers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-91541788694573748992012-11-22T13:50:51.448-08:002012-11-22T13:50:51.448-08:00Ah,they brought their Homophobia here. Why did i c...Ah,they brought their Homophobia here. Why did i come back here? Now I'm depressed. <br /><br />Well,d only thing i always say to homophobes is "i hope u have a gay kid". But then again,that'd be unfair to the poor kid and have the cycle of hate continue in perpetuity. Oh well. Pearl Osibunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-61538885959155970452012-11-22T04:51:26.420-08:002012-11-22T04:51:26.420-08:00Hummm.Nice piece I must confess. Just came across ...Hummm.Nice piece I must confess. Just came across the write up from a shared link by a friend on Facebook. I see a deprived childhood starved of love. Good he's meeting great and influential people but after all the 'bu ha ha', alone in his closest, he craves for that lost thing he couldn't get as a child. A little counseling isn't a bad idea. I wish him all the best! Nice blog altogether. You are an interesting writer!Cynthia A.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-29748077191699381112012-11-18T16:12:09.614-08:002012-11-18T16:12:09.614-08:00Mtchewwwww!!!!! Mtchewwwww!!!!! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-16890137852246461472012-11-15T01:04:58.753-08:002012-11-15T01:04:58.753-08:00Absolute bollocks. So bisi,if you were asked,to sa...Absolute bollocks. So bisi,if you were asked,to say how you became gay,you would probably say you were 'born this way'. Perhaps a look into your repressed emotions and childhood trauma is what you need to discover you have big brother issues. You crave the need for a big brother to guide and comfort you,and so you seek/claim to have found it in your'boyfriends'.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-49308852396577046242012-11-15T00:31:19.139-08:002012-11-15T00:31:19.139-08:00Such a cry baby! My older brother bullied me, I co...Such a cry baby! My older brother bullied me, I competed with him, I always lost... Yeah... Still losing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-6331373086188155672012-11-14T10:35:29.713-08:002012-11-14T10:35:29.713-08:00Were!Intrinsically sick.I think his state of menta...Were!Intrinsically sick.I think his state of mental health has contributed to this.Please go for mental exams, you may have worse than bipolar disorder.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-2900682068232281062012-11-14T06:22:16.447-08:002012-11-14T06:22:16.447-08:00Thank you Bisi!
Thank you Elnathan!
I had to sto...Thank you Bisi! <br />Thank you Elnathan!<br /><br />I had to stop several times,put my head down and remember to breathe.<br /><br />Fast paced,comprehensive and incredibly candid. <br /><br />What can i say. Bisi,you go! Do what you do. You are saving lives,literally and figuratively. I hope one day Nigeria in particular and Africa as a whole will stop this madness,this intolerance,this hypocrisy,this backwardness. I hope we wake up. I hope we grow up. I hope we think. I hope we learn love and justice. <br /><br />Thank you. Thank you. Pearl Osibunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-44321296778567162132012-11-14T05:26:36.948-08:002012-11-14T05:26:36.948-08:00Inspiring. Thorny issue. All the best Inspiring. Thorny issue. All the best Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-41025353698670230992012-11-14T00:26:11.015-08:002012-11-14T00:26:11.015-08:00ApplaudableApplaudableAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-53933225821446547192012-11-13T20:34:34.104-08:002012-11-13T20:34:34.104-08:00I'm so glad that someone had the courage to sp...I'm so glad that someone had the courage to speak up. We have more gay people in our lives than we can imagine. <br />Sexual orientation doesn't define anyone. <br />Live and let live.<br />Bravo Bisi!!! Bokinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-70958415083734447612012-11-13T19:21:25.225-08:002012-11-13T19:21:25.225-08:00I look up to you. You made me realised am not alon...I look up to you. You made me realised am not alone. You are God sent. Nigerians' MSM need you most now. Lost my right arm because I told my brother am gay; how many people had been killed for that same reason?Adegbeminoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-24511276436927390932012-11-13T12:14:16.132-08:002012-11-13T12:14:16.132-08:00This is truly inspiring. Nigerians really need to ...This is truly inspiring. Nigerians really need to stop judging people by their sexual orientation. Because a person is gay doesn't make him/her the spawn of the devil. We act like words don't hurt when words are like a million knifes thrown at one at the same time. <br />I'm happy Bisi has moved on to find love and peace despite where he is coming from. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-57820385019331710252012-11-13T09:46:21.844-08:002012-11-13T09:46:21.844-08:00To each his own!To each his own!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-72842409966967999072012-11-13T07:47:58.679-08:002012-11-13T07:47:58.679-08:00Mad manMad manAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2407622167522164416.post-13400517322705449702012-11-13T06:02:51.035-08:002012-11-13T06:02:51.035-08:00A truly fantastic and great interview. Thank you f...A truly fantastic and great interview. Thank you for opening up yourself in such a frank and candid manner. You are a survivor who is utilising your experiences to advocate for so many others and it is inspirational. Toksyknoreply@blogger.com